Principles

It is difficult to deal in few situation for people those who strongly believe in their principles. For every human it is important to have some principles in life and more important is to stick to it. There are very few who can follow it in any conditions. I am going to talk about one incident where one girl want to stick to the principles but on what cost. 

I would like to introduce her as my best hanging out buddy or I can say she is just like me that's the reason I just love her company. When we are together sometimes words are not required to communicate the things this is how our tuning works together! One day like the most other Saturday we decided to meet up and visit to some flea market. In my state people every time complaint that they have nothing to do here as there is no beaches or good places to hang around. So these days this new trend has started that you find yourself comfortable in every other weekend in some random event. Ahaan, the event place was very beautiful it was at riverfront park. There was full of energy and peace were walking hand in hand in this event. The energy was the young happening crowd and peace was the place. We were five, two couples and that friend. We had almost checked out the all stores of that market. And we were at most awaited place of the event i.e. food corner. We all are big time foodies, we always check out food options first before going anywhere such like are we going to get something new to try etc. We were enjoying the surroundings while discussing on food option and I suddenly observed that friend's behavior, it was not regular but more of like less comfortable with situation. I did not ask her anything there and there but later I asked for the clarification and I found that there was such situation where her principles were not allowing her to be the witness of something but just because she did not want to let others know about it she stayed. 

We left our conversation on that point, but somewhere back in my mind situation was clear and so the question is. What can be done in such situation if you don't want to stay but you had to. The situation where your self respect/principles are not allowing you to stay but you did not want others to know or not to be the part of it. Finally, after taking such a long time to think on what can be done, I found easiest solution just to escape such situation. You can't just simply walk away from it as it may appear as boycott. I thought of doing the same but in different manner(;)) yes, boycott but in different manner. Whenever such situation happens you may simply call any of your near or dear one and you can stay away from the whole situation for while showing that you are on genuine call. By doing this you are saving your own principles by not standing there and also relations with people around. I hope this will help you guys, Never let anyone harm your own principles or respect!!